Is social media a waste of time?

You must have heard a lot of parents saying(complaining) that their children always stay busy in social media, they waste their valuable time in that, it affects their study and blah blah blah...


In this post, I'm going to talk about how social media has changed our lives and you'll be able to answer whether it's a waste of time or not.

So what is "SOCIAL MEDIA"?

It includes a number of websites and apps that let users create or share content.

Yes, it includes apps you use like WhatsApp, Instagram, Facebook, etc.

Contribution of social media

In the last 12-15 years, especially after the arrival of Facebook, it has changed our lives drastically.

• Do you see how easy it has become to stay connected to our old and distant friends! (Facebook)

• How easy it has become to message anyone at the other end of the world! (WhatsApp)

• How easy it has become to share your photos with the world! (Instagram)

• How easy it has become to show the world that what are you doing! (Snapchat)

• How easy it has become to share your opinions on major events! (Twitter)

• How easy it has become to share/gain knowledge! (Quora, Reddit)

• How easy it has become to share your stories with everyone! (Blogger, Wordpress, Medium)

• How easy it has become to attend meetings sitting at your home and video calling? (Skype)

• How easy it has become to watch any video, be it educational, movie song, TV show, entertainment, news! (YouTube, Jio TV, Hotstar)

Apart from this, it has changed several other things which we couldn't imagine 15-20 years ago...

• Could you imagine that you could order food sitting at home and get a discount for that! Thus, you save your time and money and get your food home delivered. (Zomato, Swiggy, Uber eats) (People could order food on the telephone in the past but there weren't any discounts and  delivery charge was another problem.)

• Could you imagine that you could book a taxi according to your time schedule? (Ola, Uber)

• Could you imagine that you could do the marketing of your products to millions of people and that too for free? (Marketing on various social media pages created by respective company)

• Could you imagine that you could build your network with professionals which will help you find the job? (LinkedIn) 

• Could you imagine that you would be able to show/teach your talent to millions of other people? (Tiktok, YouTube)

• Could someone with mediocre writing skills think that he/she could write something he/she loved and get paid for it? (Blogging)

So you see, Social media has changed our lives unimaginably and that too, for better!


Today as a result of the social media revolution,

• Almost all know what is happening all over the world.

• You know that what are your friends up to.

• Almost all of us have opinions about everything.

Social media has made it easy for us to save our time, energy, socializing, know everything around us.


Social media has given an opportunity to every common guy to become "Overnight sensation" through its wide reach. (Do I need to give examples? They are all around you.)

Downsides of Social media

Every coin has two sides. Likewise, social media has its disadvantages, too.

• Students waste their valuable time on social media, scrolling through feeds seeing "what are their friends up to" and surfing mindless things. They can use social media for their benefits if they use it wisely. For example, there are countless channels on YouTube that have informative videos related to your field, your interests, new languages, calligraphy, and the list goes on. If students will watch these videos, they will learn something and add value to their life.

• You see that it has become much easier to become popular nowadays. But it is a two-way sword. If you misuse social media, you can also become a target of people who want to mock you aka trollers. (Memes)

• Another downside is people separating from each other. Though social media has made the world small, it has increased the distance between people. If you see people around you, you will see that most of them will be staring at their mobile screens, they would barely care that what's happening around them. People have 5000 friends on Facebook but they barely have 5 friends in real life upon whom they can count on.

We know which event has taken place in the other country but we don't know what are our neighbors up to.

In the end, I'll say that social media is quite awesome if you want to use it for your growth but it's totally a waste of time if you use it to scroll through the feed, do mindless surfing, trolling.

There is no point in blaming social media for the current situation. It's up to you how you use it. 

Is MOTIVATION a trap?

 "I don't want to do this because I don't feel motivated."

"I couldn't do this because I lacked motivation"

"I have the ability to do this but to do that, I think I must have motivation"

These sentences sound familiar, don't they? We hear them daily from people around us.
In fact, almost all of us have at least once in our life thought of this!


Let me ask you a question...

What is motivation?

According to Google, "It is a reason for acting or behaving in a particular way."

From my experience, I say "Motivation is nothing but the greed of getting the reward which people try to find every now and then."

Why do people need motivation?

• Frankly speaking, people need motivation because they want something in return for everything they do. They're too lazy to take action (even if it is important) if they don't get something in return.

• People want answer of 'why should I do this?' or 'what good would this do to me if I do this?' and there's nothing wrong in this. In fact, if we didn't ask all this to ourselves before doing something, we'd be wasting our valuable time and it would be too unproductive.

Is motivation a trap?

This can be a bit subjective.

But I think there are two kinds of motivation, Good and Bad.

Motivation might be a trap to you if your motivation is Bad and on the other hand, it can be a driving force for you if your motivation is good.

Let's take an example.

• Consider two persons, A and B.

• Both are fat and worried about that. People make fun of their chubbiness. Though circumstances of both the persons are the same but the way they approach it isn't the same. Let's see how.

• Person A thinks that people make fun of me, I'm tired of this. I must do something. I think I should go to the gym and make muscular body so that I'll get revenge for my insult and show these people that I'm not fat anymore.

• Person B thinks that these people are right. I'm fat and this is harmful to my health. I must do something about it. I think I should get membership of the gym and start doing workout and following diet so that I'll get a healthy body and it'll help me live a much happier life.

Did you notice any difference between the approach of them?

• Person A wants to go to the gym because he wants to prove others wrong. But what if no-one would have teased him about being fat? Chances are he'd still be fat because his motivation is bad.

• person B wants to go to the gym because he wants to improve himself and his life. He doesn't let someone's opinion affect his thinking. Chances are he'll continue going to gym till he's concerned about his well-being because his motivation is good. 

• Motivation is not a trap if you use it the right way but it starts becoming a problem if it is the sole thing you need to get anything done.

Why we shouldn't rely on motivation?

• We shouldn't rely on motivation because it doesn't last. Today you have motivation and tomorrow you don't. Just like the example of person A above, probably he won't go to the gym if people stop teasing him.

• I think the main reason people need motivation is that they don't like the current task that they're doing or they fail to see the bigger picture. We need motivation to study because we hate to do it. People need to understand that we have to do something if it needs to be done (even if we don't like it).

• Imagine if your teacher says before a week of your exam "I won't teach you today because I'm not motivated."

What will happen?

Syllabus won't complete and students will perform poorly in exams.

• Imagine a doctor saying  "I won't check patients today because I'm not motivated today."  

          What will be the condition of patients?

• Imagine if a bus driver thinks that "I won't drive the bus today because I don't feel motivated."

          A number of people won't be able to reach their destinations on time.
          Some will miss their meeting. Some students will miss lectures.

• We have to study (not only talking about 'formal education' here) despite hating it because after studying, we'll be able to get a job, become independent, improve our living standards, solve people's problems, make the world a better place to live.

• Similarly, we have to do plenty of things in life which we don't like but they are important.

The world would be a painful place to live in if everybody needs motivation to do something.


We should do something because it is important, not because we feel motivated (unless it's good motivation) 

What if someone doesn't have motivation?

• Many of us feel that we lack motivation, we don't feel like anything to do. So what to do in such situations?

I think the best way to deal with this problem is to think of possible worst consequences if we don't take actions. You should make a list of reasons of "Why I should do this?"  and think that what is the worst that could happen if you don't do this?

If the consequences are bad then chances are pretty good that they will force you to move your ass and even if they don't, those reasons will motivate you to do something.

• So whenever you think that you don't feel motivated, imagine how you'll make your or others' lives happier by your actions and your future self will thank you for that.

Just remember that there won't be any destination without any journey and that journey is only possible if you decide to do something, even if you don't want to. Get one thing through your head, nobody gives a sh*t about your feelings or mood. Do something or get ready to face consequences and regret it. It's that simple!

In the end, I'll say that motivation is good if you are willing to take action and your actions improve your and others' life but it's useless if you aren't willing to do anything and want some miracle to happen because you're too lazy to do something.

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